By Harry Ford
AdBusters.com
August 5, 2020
Those of us who aren’t on the Covid frontlines have been told to
stay home.
That is our job. (Meanwhile, our actual job may or may not have
been eliminated.)
But as the weeks roll into months, we’re discovering that doing
nothing in a crisis is its own kind of stress.
Confine stessed-out people long enough and something strange
happens.
It’s called the Third Quarter Phenomenon.
And we’re in it now.
Turns out people cooped up together for extended periods
whether in submarines or Antarctic bases or space stations
go through phases.
The first phase, Quarter One, is amygdala-inoverdrive time.
Think existential dread. (Or panic-buying of toilet paper.)
Astronauts en route to Mars are expected to experience a jolt
of fear when they can no longer see Earth in the window.
The rest of us, in the early days of this lockdown, saw Covid-19
infection numbers spike exponentially and understood: there is
nowhere to hide.
But acute stress levels don’t last, so in Quarter Two,
fear levels off.
We may start to actually enjoy what this strange
circumstance has freed up.
In the stillness of a shut-down world, there is peace.
We nap, we paint.
But this is only a bluff charge at equanimity.
Because something happens just beyond the halfway point.
In Quarter Three, the psyche starts to curdle.
Anxiety and depression set in.
Morale crashes.
For no particular reason, we want to wring each other’s necks.
“July 11: Today was difficult,” wrote cosmonaut Valentin Lebedev
entering Quarter Three aboard the Soviet space station Salut. “I
don’t think we understand what is going on with us.” Lebedev
and crewmate Anatoly Berezovoy stopped talking for two weeks.
In Quarter Three, brute loneliness blooms.
We understand that we have been cut away from the herd.
Separated from our kind.
At this point there is only one prescription:
When you’re
going through hell,
keep going.
In the department of Medicine at the University of Tasmania there
is a psychologist named Kimberley Norris, whose specific expertise
is “confinement and reintegration.”
Her research identified a possible silver lining to the kind of social
experiment we’re all in.
A reason to believe the Fourth Quarter will be better.
As it happens, many people who go through the trial of extended
isolation — Third Quarter madness and all – say they would … do
it again.
“We ask them, if it’s so bad why do you keep going back?"
Norris told The Australian Broadcasting Corporation recently.
The answer is that … something happened to them in lockdown.
They faced something that needed to be faced.
They learned something that needed to be learned.
“When people have space to sit back and think it allows them
to figure out what’s important to them.”
And those newly identified core values?
People are also more likely to act on them.
Something else Dr. Norris observed:
In the psychological hothouse of isolation, both men and women
seemed to shore up undeveloped parts of themselves. Men became
less insular — they started asking for help — and women become
more self-confident — realizing they were more capable than they
thought. Everybody sort of rebalanced. And relationships improved.
“Post-COVID we will see differences in the way people engage with
each other, in the way people work, in the priorities given to the
environment, and the way people think about travel,” Norris said.
It may be that that what psychologist Carol Gilligan has been calling
for for decades — the shift from “an ethic of power to an ethic of
care” — may finally be possible, because of this pandemic.
https://www.adbusters.org/article/post-covid-engaging-differences
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